Radisson Seven Seas 2001 Cruise |
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ITINERARY Transatlantic
Crossing Apr 1 - 10
/ 01 Ft
Lauderdale, Hamilton, Funchal (Madeira)
Gateway
to Western Cultures
Apr 10 - 17 / 01 Funchal
(Madeira), Malaga, Barcelona, Nice, Portofino, Civitavecchia (Rome) Passenger Capacity: 490 Built: 1999 Length: 560 ft. Beam: 81 ft. Draft: 21 ft. Elevator: 3 Officers: European Staff and Crew: 325. European Wheelchair Access
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| Travel story
by Steve Natran, Gentleman Host on the Radisson Seven Seas Navigator, April 1 - 17, 2001. This is a
specific story about an event that occurred while on this cruise. It was probably the
second week of the cruise and Ziggy the Maitre 'd had about exhausted his resources in
getting me seated each and every night with a different solo traveller. He sat me down at
a table with 2 elderly ladies. One of these ladies I had occasion to speak to earlier in
the cruise the other I had never seen before. Once seated I
introduced myself and asked them where they were from and other such engaging questions.
The lady that I had never met before turned to me and asked, "Why are you here with
us?" When I asked what she meant, she replied that she thought that I would have more
interesting people to sit with. I responded that it was a part of my role as a GH to
engage in such social activities. Once we got
through that, this lady relaxed and started telling me about the loss of her spouse of 67
years just six months before. She also related that a month prior to this loss, her son
(age 64) had also passed away. Donning my best Social Work hat I asked her a few leading
questions and let her pour out her heart (as much as she wanted). She seemed to appreciate
this. At one point
in her sharing she stated that she had very little to live for and that she was just
biding her time. I continued to asked her open-ended questions, which led to the
expression of a number of reasons for her to live. I fed back what she had said and sure
enough she seemed to come to a realization that she does in fact have something to live
for. We also talked about bereavement groups and how they can further help her to search
for and find reasons to live for. By the end of
dinner this lady was expressing a great deal of appreciation for having taken the time to
listen to her and helping her to see that there was life after loss. We parted
that evening with her saying she was sorry for asking the question, "Why are you here
with us?". She said she now knew. And interestingly we did not even talk about
dancing. I relate this
story because I have had similar experiences where I am doing a job and lo and behold my
other career/job is of immense benefit to me or in this case to this lady. My Social Work
skills helped make this a rewarding experience for me as well as this lady. |
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